Don’t remember where I found this, I certainly didn’t write it, but after reading The Girlfriends Guide Book-Navigating Female Friendship by Marian Jordan, I’ve been giving a lot of thought to friendship. I will be writing about this book in the near future.
A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.
A simple friend doesn’t know your parents’ first name.
A real friend has their phone numbers in her address book.
A simple friend brings food to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean up.
A simple friend hates it when you call after she has gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.
A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.
A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it.
A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps herself.
A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it’s not a friendship until after you’ve had an fight (or disagreement).
A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!