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Dusty Women-Patti

This category of posts on Dusty Women is one of my favorites.

They are ordinary women who love and serve an Extraordinary God. Women I want to be like so the Word of God will not be dishonored. Titus 2:5 I wanted a catchy title other than God’s Women, so I asked a friend for help, this is how she answered when I asked her help on a title for his series–

what is something that defines us? Maybe not where we’re from but where we’re going? I always love the analogy of following Jesus so closely that you get the dust of your shepherd on you. Following in the footsteps of your Shepherd.  So you could call us Dusty Women.

I love the fact that she said we need to be defined by where we’re going not where we’ve been. As Paul says in Philippians 3:12-13

forget what is behind.

Patti was definitely a dusty woman, she clung to Jesus every single day. I am sad that I didn’t interview her, but I’ve known her for many years. I speak of her in the past tense, because she is now with her Lord. On October 13, she closed her eyes in this world and opened them to see her Savior. I’m thrilled for her, but the spot she occupied in my heart and many others is quite noticeable, and her pew at church is empty.
But I learned from her to not dwell on the sadness. Patti was a shining example of how to live every single day to the fullest, not focusing on her suffering and circumstances, but always asking how you were doing. Her words were Bible saturated, and her response to any difficulty was not ‘woe is me’ but praying fervently and without ceasing. She was a trained professional cook, also working as a nanny because she loved children.
Patti left notes for my husband, also her pastor, on what she wanted included at her funeral service. She didn’t want a eulogy, and she probably would have said ‘stop talking about me’ if she heard what was said during the sharing time. She was not one for the spot light, she wanted the focus of her homegoing celebration to focus on what she had in Christ.
She and her husband did not have children, their needs were always met, but were not wealthy, Patti suffered many years with Chrohn’s disease, cancer, along with other physical ailments. She never complained, not to me anyway. You knew where you stood with Patti, one my favorite qualities about her, she lived transparently, never beating around the bush when answering a question.
I usually end my interviews asking some fun questions about food and drinks. She didn’t drink coffee or tea and she loved black licorce. She loved to cook, and was often found in our church kitchen showing us the way to prepare excellent food.
Patti loved God ultimately, God’s Word passionately, her husband unconditionally, and she didn’t know a stranger. She taught me how to live. She truly lived out Titus 2:3-5.

Dusty Women~~ Daisy Wallace

2014 Several months ago I came across Titus 2 Tuesday blog posts. Inspired to do the same thing I set out to make a list of my own questions. Women who have encouraged me to be a radical follower of Jesus. Radical in the sense they love God with all the heart, mind and soul and their neighbor as themselves. They are ordinary women who love and serve an Extraordinary God. Women I want to be like so the Word of God will not be dishonored. Titus 2:5

I wanted a catchy title other than God’s Women, so I asked a friend for help and she said

what is something that defines us? Maybe not where we’re from but where we’re going?

I always love the analogy of following Jesus so closely that you get the dust of your shepherd on you. Following in the footsteps of your Shepherd.  So you could call us Dusty Women.

I love the fact that she said we need to be defined by where we’re going not where we’ve been. As Paul says in Philippians 3:12-13…

forget what is behind.

Continuing my series of Dusty Women, my next friend to talk to is Daisy Wallace. I have known of Daisy for a long time as she has held several leadership positions in our women’s ministry of our local district. Over the past few years, as I have become more involved I have had the privilege of getting to know her better. She is an awesome inspiration as to how to follow Jesus. Her love of her Savior, family and women of God is evident as it is very apparent in how she lives her life loving God with all her heart, mind and soul and her neighbor as herself. Daisy is a wife, mother and presently is our District Director of Great Commission Women. I will let her tell the rest of the story.

Daisy

Daisy, would you describe yourself in 5-7 words?  

Lover of Jesus; passionate about family, ministry, missions.

Would you briefly describe how and when you were rescued from the domain of darkness and transferred in the Kingdom of God? (Colossians 1:13)

When I was seven years old, my pastor gave an altar call and I was convicted to go forward to pray and ask Jesus in my heart. I knew I was a sinner even at that young age and I wanted forgiveness. My mother had been explaining to me and showing me in God’s Word how Jesus wants us to live our lives for him.

What do you enjoy about being a wife? Describe marriage in 5 words

My biggest joy about being married is the deep love of my husband towards me like that of Jesus, his faithfulness to our marriage and to God, his support of ministry I am involved in.

Deep and faithful eternal no-strings attached love

Daisy and her husband Bob have been married over 50 years.

What advice would you give a young woman who is struggling with who she is?

Get into God’s Word and his promises of who we are in him. Be willing to become a one-on-one mentor/teacher or get her connected with one.

What does God’s Word mean to you?

God’s Word is my daily life blood, strength, peace, joy and “handbook” for life.

What does the local body of Christ mean to you?

Fellowship, accountability, teaching.

Coffee or Tea?

Coffee

Chocolate or vanilla?  

Vanilla

 

Dusty Women-Lori

9-24-2015 Lori and I had to have been first friends. You can read all about that below. She also helped me with the initial beginnings of Dusty Women, which you can read about below too. Lori recently returned from a trip to Uganda. Not a missions trip per se, but a vision trip of what God is doing in that part of the world. Please read about her travels here, this is a story you don’t want to miss. She is a woman of God who inspires me on almost a daily basis. We mostly text a few times a week, or an occasional email. And a fellow coffee drinker when we get to see one another. She brought me something all the way from Africa.  She inspires me in so many ways in her walk with Jesus. She has a way with words but her text to me this morning was one of her best. 

I knew you would savor every drop as you savor our living Lord! Lori 

coffee

2014 Several months ago I came across Titus 2 Tuesday blog posts. Inspired to do the same thing I set out to make a list of my own questions. Women who have encouraged me to be a radical follower of Jesus. Radical in the sense they love God with all the heart, mind and soul and their neighbor as themselves. They are ordinary women who love and serve an Extraordinary God. Women I want to be like so the Word of God will not be dishonored. Titus 2:5

I wanted a catchy title other than God’s Women, so I asked a friend for help and she said

what is something that defines us? Maybe not where we’re from but where we’re going?

I always love the analogy of following Jesus so closely that you get the dust of your shepherd on you. Following in the footsteps of your Shepherd.  So you could call us Dusty Women.

I love the fact that she said we need to be defined by where we’re going not where we’ve been. As Paul says in Philippians 3:12-13…

forget what is behind.

Lori Somers is my next interview in the series of Dusty Women.

206491_205490752807805_3098552_nI don’t even know where to begin with my friend Lori. We’ve known each other…forever. Her mom and mine have been friends since 5th grade and they are in their 70’s. In fact, Lori’s arrival changed my mom’s wedding…kind of. Her mom Sharon was to be in my mom’s wedding on July 30 and Lori was born a week prior to that. My mom went to plan B. Now that she and I are in our 50’s our story together is very…long. But this post is about her journey not mine or ours, I will save that for another time. When looking for a picture of her there weren’t too many to choose from that were just of Lori. Most of the time she is surrounded by 5 grandchildren or walking the dusty roads of Africa. In her spare time she works full time to take care of business, love on her grandchildren and feed her passion to love the least of these. Wouldn’t you agree her smile is contagious? The interview follows this picture.

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Lori, would you describe yourself in 5-7 words?

L=Loving  O=Organized  R=Resourceful  I=Intelligent  How about four words? Eli made this for me when he was little and I think it fits pretty well.

Would you briefly describe how and when you were rescued from the domain of darkness and transferred in the Kingdom of God? (Colossians 1:13)

At the time God’s saving grace wrapped me in righteousness I was 14 years old. I really didn’t understand or know the depths of God’s mercy and grace at that time. But I have lived through the depths and seen God’s glory reveal itself over and over again. God never changes. His love never fails. I am rescued from the domain of darkness every single day. God’s Kingdom awaits me, and He is preparing a place for me. He wrestles me in the valley so that I can proclaim victory in areas of my life that would never produce fruit. Praise God!

What do you enjoy about being a mother and grandmother?

Being a mother tests your resolve and makes you decide what is important. The best part of being a mother is the love. It changes who you are. The best part of being a Grandma is the freedom to play and enjoy every moment without an agenda.

What advice would you give to a young mother struggling to just get through the day?

You have to set aside what the world thinks is important and focus your mind and energy on the attributes of Christ. Phil 4:8 will get you through rough conversations, rough emotions and raw days where nothing goes right. See your family and children as God sees them. Pray for the eyes and heart of Christ to serve your family. The world tells you that if your feelings are intact and it feels good, do it. But wisdom tells us that “right thinking leads to right behavior which leads to right feelings”. You can get into trouble if you start out with getting your feelings in order.

What does God’s Word mean to you?

God’s Word is truth. It makes me alive. It challenges me to have a clear mind and heart in order to speak truth into others.

What does the body of Christ mean to you?

The Family of God is the way God wraps his arms around you when you are hurting, distraught, or when you need someone to make you accountable. The body of believers also rejoices with you in truth and victory!

Coffee or Tea? Coffee

Vanilla or Chocolate? Vanilla Cake; everything else chocolate

In addition I asked Lori one more question regarding her life in Christ. She has clung to her Savior’s hem getting a lot of dust on her as she seeks to follow Him in everything.

Lori, what do you mean when you say

Letting freedom and redemption flood my heart and soul. Not just saying it but believing it.

Its one thing to know in my head I am free. Free from past sin, guilt, chains that bound me to a marriage that was over long before my pride would allow me to acknowledge it was over. I told myself I was free from that, but I kept my windows and doors locked, curtains pulled. That is not freedom. You have to live like you’re free and let it flood your mornings, your afternoons and your bedtime. God’s redeeming grace tells me its okay, you don’t have to look back. And you don’t ever have to go through that again. I wanted you to learn to depend on me fully. And I’m redeeming your life, your heart and your service for greater things. I have delivered you from oppression and unlove. God is saying “move with me, lean into me, and let my grace pour over your heart and your life.” And I have to be obedient to those words, and those actions. We want logical and black and white words. But Jesus tells us that is no solution at all. He beckons me to come to Him, weary and heavy-laden and He will give me salvation rest, away from my self-made decisions, to trust Him.  I’ve moved from saying those words to believing that freedom and redemption ARE mine as I follow Him down a new road.

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